Cheating by Spouse and Hindu Marriage Law

You can file for a divorce if your spouse has cheated on you, i.e. when they have had voluntary sexual intercourse with another person. This is also referred to as adultery.

To get a divorce, you will have to prove that voluntary sexual intercourse took place between your spouse and another person.

Till recently, cheating was a crime. It is no longer a crime. However, you can still file for divorce on the grounds that your spouse has cheated on you.

Hindu Divorce if Spouse has left you

If your spouse has left you then you can file for a divorce. This is known as desertion.

Immediate Effect of Desertion

Desertion can happen if your spouse has left you with immediate effect with an intention to never come back to stay with you as your spouse, without you agreeing to this arrangement.

This will only be understood by the Courts on a case by case basis. It is important to note that if your spouse has temporarily or in the heat of the moment left you, without actually intending to abandon you, this will not amount to desertion.

For example, if you had a fight with your husband and he leaves the house in anger then it does not mean that he has deserted you.

Causing Desertion

However, it is important that you have not created such a circumstance that any reasonable person would find so difficult to bear with that would have had to desert you. If you have created such a circumstance then the courts may not consider your case for desertion.

Other Ways of Desertion

Apart from a single act of leaving you, desertion can happen over a period of time through a course of conduct or through repeated behavioural patterns.

If your spouse has slowly withdrawn from you and your social circles (for example: stopped all interaction with you and your family though he/she may live with you) and has stopped behaving as any spouse does in a marriage (for example: refusing to financially contribute to a household since and contribute in any other way to the household) it can be understood as desertion. In such a case the spouse doesn’t have to physically leave you. Depending on the circumstances of each case, the Court can consider the desertion to begin when such behaviour started.

The Court will look at all the facts and circumstances to understand each specific case to decide on granting a divorce.

Time Period for Desertion

In order to claim desertion as a reason for divorce:

  • Your spouse should have deserted or abandoned you for two years.
  • This two year period must be continuous.

For example, Karan left his wife, Vijji, in January 2016, but changed his mind and came back to be with his wife in July 2017. Vijji cannot go to Court to file for a divorce for this reason as the two year period was not continuous.

Hindu Marriage and Mental Illness

If you are in a Hindu marriage, the mental illness of your spouse can be a ground for divorce.

You can file for divorce if:

  • Your spouse is suffering from any mental disorder that is not curable; or
  • Your spouse has a mental disorder that occurs intermittently or continuously and this illness affects your capacity to live with them.

It is important to note that a few strong instances indicating a short temper and somewhat erratic behaviour on the part of your spouse may not amount to or be indicative of a mental disorder.

Divorce can only happen if your spouse’s mental disorder would lead to the behaviour of such a kind that you cannot reasonably be expected to live with him or her.

You can even ask the Court to direct your spouse to undergo a medical examination to ascertain that he or she is suffering from an unsound mind to prove your case.

Conversion of religion from Hinduism

Conversion 

You can file for divorce if your spouse has undergone conversion to another religion and has ceased to be a Hindu.

File a Case

It is very important to note that since your spouse has converted to another religion it does not automatically end your marriage to them. You must still file for divorce.

Even if your spouse has converted to another religion the divorce proceedings will happen under the Hindu law and not the religion your spouse converted to. This is because your marriage to your spouse happened under Hindu law.

Marrying before Filing for a Divorce

Till the divorce has been finalized by the Court your marriage will continue to exist with your spouse. Your spouse cannot marry before this and such marriage will not be a valid marriage in law.

Punishment

If your spouse marries again without getting a divorce from you then you can charge them with the offence of bigamy which is punishable with up to 7 years jail time and a fine.

Muslim Divorce if Husband Is Impotent

Under Muslim law, you can file for divorce if you find out that your husband is impotent or even if you knew throughout your marriage that your husband was impotent. In this situation your husband can do either of the following:

  • Accept in front of the Court that he is indeed impotent.
  • Deny the impotency allegation in Court and prove that he is free from any physical defect of impotency.
  • File an application to the Court to give him one year to medically fix the problem. If after a year, he is not impotent, then the Court cannot grant a divorce in your favor.

Proof of Divorce under Hindu Marriage Law

The proof that your divorce has happened is the Court’s final order known as ‘decree of divorce’. This is in the form of an order, which is a document that enforces your divorce.

A decree of divorce is final when either of the two happens:

  • The spouse who is unhappy with the decision of the Court has already appealed the decree of divorce within 90 days, and the Court has dismissed that appeal.
  • There is no right to appeal.

Please consult a lawyer for more information on this.

Cruel Behavior and Muslim Marriage Law

There are provisions on cruel behavior under the Muslim marriage law. Cruelty is any conduct or behavior which causes harassment in the mind of the spouse. Under the Muslim law, cruelty is specifically understood as when your husband:

  • Habitually assaults you or physically abuses you.
  • Has sexual intercourse with other women.
  • Forces you to lead an immoral life.
  • Disposes of your property and prevents you from exercising your legal rights over it.
  • Obstructs you from practicing your religion.
  • In a scenario where he has more than one wife and does not treat you equally as compared to the other wives.