Theme: Family Related Violence

If I leave my house because of domestic violence, will I be able to see my children again?

Yes, you will be able to see your children again. You can ask the Protection Officer to help you file an application for temporary custody for your children. However, the magistrate can only give you a right to keep your children with you temporarily. For you to obtain the right to keep your children with you permanently a case will have to be filed by way of other laws.

What evidence will be used to prove domestic violence that is verbal or emotional on the court?

The court will rely primarily on the testimony of the victim of domestic violence. If there are eyewitness accounts then the court will rely on those testimonies as well. However, since domestic abuse happens primarily at home and it is unlikely that there will be many eyewitness accounts in support of the woman, the court will rely primarily on the victim’s account. The case of domestic abuse need not be proved beyond reasonable doubt. That is, the court only needs to believe that the women were subject to abuse after considering all the facts and circumstances.

My parents-in-law had started assaulting me physically compelling me to starve for days. Lastly on 13.03.2020 they caused me to hospitalization making half-dead. My father lodged FIR u/s 498A but the mother-in-law is still avoiding arrest while my father-in-law, after jail custody of 3 months, is out now. I begged for getting safe entry in my in-law\’s house as my parents are very poor and I have got a child on 14.12.2020. Virtually I am roofless now. My parents-in-laws have driven me out of the share way back on 15.03.2020. High Court has advised me to take resort of other efficacious remedy and I am asking for going to the appropriate court of law for immediate protection.

A woman can file a domestic violence complaint against any person with whom she is/has been in a domestic relationship. This includes:

  • Husband/male partner
  • Relatives of her husband or male partner, including in-laws, aunts, uncles, etc.

To seek immediate protection from domestic violence, you should file an application with the Court with the help of a Protection Officer or a lawyer. The Court will pass a protection order to give you and your child protection from the harasser. The order passed by the Court will be temporary, but for a fixed duration until the Court feels that such an order is not required due to a change in circumstances. You can take the help of your lawyer to extend the duration of the order, if you require it.

Apart from the Court, you can also approach:

What is a Domestic Relationship?

[Trigger Warning: The following content contains information on domestic violence which some readers may find disturbing.]

In order to seek relief for domestic violence under the law, you need to prove that you have a domestic relationship with the harasser. A domestic relationship means that you are related in any of the following ways with your harasser:

  • Related by blood. For example, any relative, like your uncle, your sister, your father, etc.
  • Related by marriage. For example, your husband, your sister-in law, your brother-in law, etc.
  • Relationship that is similar to the nature of marriage, like your live-in partner.
  • Related by adoption. For example, your step-father, your step-brother, etc.
  • Related by virtue of living together as a joint family. For example, in a joint family, you can complaint against all members of the family such as your father, brother/sister-in-law, uncle/aunt, grandmother/father etc.

To go to Court, you also have to prove that you and the harasser currently live, or have lived in the past, in a shared household.

Some states provide handbooks for ASHA workers where you can find more information on forms on violence and how to file a complaint to seek protection against domestic violence. For example, see this handbook published for ASHA in Chattisgarh, Delhi, Jharkhand, Madhya Pradesh and Uttarakhand.

What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence refers to violent or abusive behavior in a household that causes harm and may put the health and safety of a woman or any child under her custody in danger. With the help of the law(( Form IV, The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Rules, 2006.)), you can:

  • Prevent further violence by getting immediate protection. To get immediate protection, you can approach different authorities, such as the police, protection officer, etc.
  • Go to Court for:

Kinds of Domestic Violence 

The kind of violence you face does not always have to be physical. The law also recognizes other kinds of domestic violence such as sexual violence, verbal abuse, emotional or mental abuse and monetary abuse. For example, if your brother-in-law threatens to throw you out of the house every day, this is a form of emotional abuse.

Frequency of Domestic Violence

Even a single act of violence can constitute domestic violence(( Section 3, The Prohibition of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005.)). You don’t have to endure domestic violence for a prolonged period of time to go to Court or seek help.

What is sex selection?

Sex selection includes any procedure, technique, test or administration or prescription or provision of anything to ensure or increase the probability that an embryo will be of a particular sex.(( Section 2(o), Pre-conception and Pre-natal Diagnostic Techniques (Prohibition of Sex Selection) Act, 1994.))

Sex selection is illegal in India and any prenatal diagnostic procedures are only allowed in limited circumstances where a doctor would require the woman’s written consent.

Read this Government handbook by the National Health Systems Resource Centre to understand more on the law on pre-conception and pre-natal diagnostic techniques in India.

What is Dowry?

Dowry is anything which has value (such as cash and property) which is given by the bride’s family to the groom’s family as a condition of marriage.(( Section 2, Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961.))

The law does not stop the exchange of gifts with the fiance’s family during the wedding. The purpose of this law is to prohibit coercion during the gift exchange.

Gifts from the bride’s side should be according to custom and as per financial capacity of her family. For example, in marriages in certain societies, sarees and jewellery are given to women relatives of both the bride and groom, by the other side. This is done as per custom and therefore would not be considered as dowry. There may be other customs of giving certain gifts.

However, it is important to note that the groom’s family cannot force a bride to give the gifts per the custom as this would be demanding dowry. Generally, gifts given should be of a value which do not create an extraordinary financial burden to the person giving them.(( Provision to Section 3, Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961)) For example, if the bride’s father has to take a loan of a significant amount to buy gifts for the groom’s side, then it cannot be said that the gift has been given as per financial capacity of the person. This could be a case of an excessive financial burden on him and could be seen as a case of dowry.

What is a Shared Household ?

[Trigger Warning: The following content contains information on domestic violence which some readers may find disturbing.]

You live in a shared household with your harasser if you:

Have lived with the harasser 

In order to seek protection and relief, you must live, or have lived at some point of time, with your harasser in the household. However, it is not necessary that you are residing with your husband at the time of filing a complaint for domestic violence(( Sejal Dharmesh Ved v. The State of Maharashtra and Ors 2014 ALL MR (Cri) 636; Rupali Devi v. State of Uttar Pradesh & Ors.  (2019) 5 SCC 384.)), or that you are residing with him when the violence took place.(( Lalita Toppo v. State of Jharkhand & Anr.  2018 (4) RCR (Criminal) 976.)) You just need to have shared a household with the harasser at some point of time.

Have a domestic relationship with the harasser

In order to seek relief and protection from domestic violence, you need to have a domestic relationship with your abuser, in addition to having a shared household with them. For example, if you have lived with your mother-in-law in the same house, and you are being subjected to domestic violence, you can seek relief and protection, as it means that you had a domestic relationship with the harasser and lived with her in a shared household.

However, if you have merely lived in a shared household, but did not share a domestic relationship with the harasser, you cannot file a complaint against domestic violence. For example, if you have a servant who resides in your house, and he beats you up, you cannot file a complaint under this law against him, as you do not have a domestic relationship with him.

Have/do not have a legal share in the house

To claim relief and protection, it does not matter if you have a legal share in the house. This household can be owned/leased by either you, the harasser , or the both of you, and also includes households that belong to the joint family of which the harasser is a part, even if you do not have a legal right in it.

However, if the property is the exclusive, personal property of the parents-in-law, or any other relative of the harasser, you do not have a right to claim any share in that house, as that is not a shared household.(( S.R. Batra v. Taruna Batra (2007) 3 SCC 169.))  However, the Court will ultimately decide whether or not to allow you to reside in a particular house according to the facts of the case, so you may be allowed to reside in a house owned by your mother-in-law in some cases.  See here for more details on residence orders.

Please note that it is not necessary that the violence has taken place only in the house where you reside; it can take place anywhere.

Some states provide handbooks for ASHA workers where you can find more information on forms on violence, where it can happen and how to file a complaint to seek protection against domestic violence. For example, see this handbook published for ASHA in Chattisgarh, Delhi, Jharkhand, Madhya Pradesh and Uttarakhand.

What are prenatal diagnostic procedures?

Prenatal diagnostic procedures include any gynaecological, obstetrical or medical procedures such as ultrasonography, taking or removing samples of amniotic fluid, blood or any other tissue or fluid of a person, in order to conduct any prenatal diagnostic tests for sex selection, before or after conception.(( Section 2(i), Pre-conception and Pre-natal Diagnostic Techniques (Prohibition of Sex Selection) Act, 1994.))

The purpose of these procedures is to obtain material to conduct prenatal diagnostic tests to increase the chances of getting an embryo of a particular sex.