What is the procedure for a marriage by a person licensed to grant marriage certificates?

As per the law, a person licensed to grant Marriage certificates can only certify marriage between two Indian Christians,(( Section 60, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) neither of them coming from the Roman Catholic faith.(( Section 65, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) Under these provisions, any two Indian Christians can marry, without preliminary notices, if they fulfil the following conditions:

  • The bridegroom is over 21 years and the bride is over 18 years of age.(( Section 60 (1), Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) 
  • Neither of them has a wife or husband still living.(( Section 60 (2), Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) 
  • If they take the oath prescribed by the law, in front of the person licensed to grant certificates, and two other credible witnesses.(( Section 60 (3), Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) 

Upon receiving an application in person from any one of the parties, the licensed person will see whether the above criteria have been met, and shall issue a certificate for the marriage. The fee for obtaining such a certificate is four annas, that is, 25 paise. This certificate will act as conclusive proof for the validity of the marriage performed.(( Section 61, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

What are prohibited relationships under the law?

Certain relationships are prohibited under the law. This means that a person cannot marry certain kinds of relatives:(( Mulla, D. F., Sir. (n.d.). Principles of Mahomedan Law (20th ed.) p.332.))

Blood Relations 

You cannot marry your mother, grandmother, daughter, granddaughter, sister, niece, great-niece, aunts, or great-aunts. You also cannot marry someone who is also related to you through such relatives. For example, you cannot marry your great granddaughter.

Relatives through Marriage 

You cannot marry your wife’s mother/grandmother, wife’s daughter/granddaughter, son’s wife in the case of a second, third or fourth marriage. 

Relatives through Fosterage 

All relations prohibited through blood relations and marriages apply to foster relationships as well. Example, a man cannot marry his foster mother’s daughter.

 

Cruel Behaviour and Hindu Marriage Law

Cruel Behavior is a ground of divorce under Hindu Marriage Law. Cruelty is behavior or conduct which causes harassment to you. Cruelty may be in two forms:

Physical

  • If your spouse physically hurts you by causing any bodily harm, then you can go to the Court to ask for a divorce. This kind of behavior amounts to physical cruelty. It is easier to prove this in Court.

Mental

  • If your spouse is causing you mental distress, because of his or her conduct or words, then this kind of behavior amounts to mental cruelty. For example, if your spouse abuses you verbally or your spouse harms your reputation in front of your friends and colleagues etc. Mental cruelty is more difficult to prove in Court as compared to physical cruelty.

The act of cruelty is gender-neutral, meaning, a husband can file the case against the wife for cruelty and vice-versa.

Child Marriages Not Recognized by Law

In certain cases under the child marriage law, the marriage would be absolutely illegal and will be considered to have not occurred in the first place. Such instances are as under: 

 

  • When a child is kidnapped for the purpose of marriage. 
  • When a child is enticed and taken for the purpose of marriage.
  • When a child is: 
  • Sold for the purpose of marriage
  • After marriage, the minor is sold or trafficked 
  • If the Court passed an order against a child marriage and it still takes place. 

 

Hindu Marriages and Mental Illness

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The law states that people with mental illnesses usually do not have the capacity to enter into valid legal marriages. Mental illness means a substantial disorder of thinking, mood, perception, orientation or memory that severely impairs judgement, behavior, capacity to recognize reality or to meet the ordinary demands of life, and mental conditions associated with the abuse of alcohol and drugs.(( Section 2(s), Mental Healthcare Act, 2017.))

A person planning on getting married should be able to give valid consent. If you are not able to give consent because of:

  • Unsoundness of mind or;
  • Because of a mental disorder which makes you ‘unfit for marriage and the procreation of children’ or;
  • If you get ‘recurrent attacks of insanity’, your marriage will not be valid.

While the provision of the law may not cover all kinds of mental illnesses, there are no proper guidelines on what kind of illnesses or the degrees of illness make you unsuitable for marriage.

Types of Adoption

The types of adoption given below are only applicable to you if you decide to follow the non-religious law on adoption.(( Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2015.)) If you follow the Hindu adoption laws,(( Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956.)) there are no specific types of adoptions.

These are the following categories of adoption procedures:

  • Adoption by resident Indians (residing in India)
  • Adoption of a child from a foreign country by Indian citizens 
  • Adoption by Overseas Citizen of India (OCI) or a foreigner living in India
  • Adoption by OCI or Non-Resident Indian (NRI) or a foreigner living abroad 
  • Adoption by step-parent 
  • Adoption by relative
    • In-country adoption i.e. adoption within India
    • Inter-country adoption

Maintenance after death

The duty to maintain parents exists even after the death of your child or legal heir. Upon an application, the court may order that a portion of the child or legal heir’s wealth and assets be given to you, if you are old and infirm. The amount of maintenance in such cases will be calculated as per the rules of inheritance applicable after the death of your child or legal heir. The amount due to you will be decided by a court after considering a number of factors such as:

  • Full value of assets of the child or legal heir after paying off their debts including any income from their property,
  • Provisions of their will (if any),
  • Nature and closeness of the relationship with you,
  • Your needs and requirements (reasonably calculated), or
  • The number of people dependent on them for maintenance.

What is the procedure for a marriage by a Marriage Registrar?

A marriage performed by a Marriage Registrar is divided into 4 stages:

Stage 1: Issuing of Preliminary Notice

If a couple wishes to be married by a Marriage Registrar, one of them must give a notice in person to the Registrar of the district in which the couple lives. In case they live in different districts, the notice shall be given to the Registrars of both the districts. The notice shall state their intention to be married, in the prescribed format, and should mention the following:

  • The name and surname, and the profession, of each of the persons intending marriage, 
  • The current address of each of them, 
  • The time during which each has been present in the said address. In case a person has been staying there for more than a month, they only need to state the same.
  • The place where the marriage will take place.(( Section 38, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

Given below is a sample notice:

Notice Marriage Registrar

The notice will be pasted by the Registrar at a conspicuous place in the office,(( Section 39, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) and will be entered in the Marriage Notice Book kept in the office.1

Stage 2: Issuing of certificate of receipt of notice

After at least four days of receiving the notice by the Registrar,(( Section 41, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) one of the parties intending marriage must make an oath to the Registrar, stating that there are no legal problems in performing the marriage, and that they live within the District of the Registrar’s office.(( Section 42, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In case one of the parties is a minor, one of the parties must also take an oath stating that the necessary steps have been taken.(( Section 42, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) To know more about the special procedures of marriage of a minor, read our explainer on Marriages of Minors under Christian Law.

After such a declaration has been made, the Registrar will issue a certificate to the parties, in the prescribed format, and the parties can be married by any Registrar or in the Registrar’s presence, within two months of receiving the certificate.(( Sections 41, 50-52, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) Given below is a sample of a certificate of receipt of notice.

Stage 3: Performance of Marriage

The certificates obtained must be produced in front of the Registrar at the time of marriage.(( Section 51, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) The marriage will be conducted either by the Registrar themselves, or any other person authorized to do the same. The marriage ceremony must be attended by two witnesses, apart from the Registrar.(( Section 51, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In case two months have passed from receipt of the certificate, the entire process must restart with a fresh notice.(( Section 52, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) 

Stage 4: Registration of Marriage

After the performance of the marriage, the details of the marriage shall be entered in a register by the Registrar, in the prescribed format.(( Sections 53 & 54, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) The entry will be signed by the Registrar, the person who performed the marriage (if marriage was performed by someone other than the Registrar), parties to the marriage, and two witnesses who had attended the ceremony.(( Section 54, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) 

A certified copy of an entry in the marriage register, signed by the person under whose custody the register is kept, will act as evidence that the persons mentioned in the entry have been married according to the law.(( Section 80, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) Upon payment of the prescribed fees to the Marriage Registrar, one can always inspect a marriage register which is within the custody of the said Registrar.(( Section 79, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) 

  1. Section 40, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872. []

Who are the witnesses required during a Muslim marriage?

The marriage has to take place in the presence of:

  • Two male witnesses or 
  • One male and two female witnesses. 

 

These witnesses must be Muslims, adults and of sound mind. The Sunni School of Muslim law specifically requires two witnesses to present while the Shia School of Law does not require the presence of a witness in any matter regarding marriage.(( Mulla, D. F., Sir. (n.d.). Principles of Mahomedan Law (20th ed.) p.332.)) 

Cheating by Spouse and Hindu Marriage Law

You can file for a divorce if your spouse has cheated on you, i.e. when they have had voluntary sexual intercourse with another person. This is also referred to as adultery.

To get a divorce, you will have to prove that voluntary sexual intercourse took place between your spouse and another person.

Till recently, cheating was a crime. It is no longer a crime. However, you can still file for divorce on the grounds that your spouse has cheated on you.

Children Born Out of Child Marriages

Irrespective of whether the child marriage has been cancelled or not, as per the law, a child born out of such a marriage would be considered a legitimate child under the law. 

 

Custody of Children

 

As for the custody of such children, the district court will decide who would receive custody of the children only while hearing the petition for cancelling the marriage. 

 

The court will take the following into account while granting custody:

 

  • The welfare and the best interest of the child will be given paramount consideration by the court while deciding their custody.
  • The court may even allow the other party access to such children if it thinks it would be in the best interest of the child to do so. 
  • The District Courts can direct the husband, or in cases of minors, their parents or guardians, to pay an amount as maintenance to the girl. 

 

Prohibited Relationships under Hindu Marriage Law

If the spouses are within the degrees of prohibited relationship, then their marriage will not be a valid marriage. The following are the kinds of prohibited marriages:

  • If one spouse is a lineal ascendant of the other. A lineal ascendant includes a father, mother, grandfather and grandmother, but also great grandfather and great grandmother and so on.
  • If one spouse is the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant or descendant of the other. A lineal descendant will include not only children and grandchildren but also great grandchildren and their children as well.
  • If the two spouses are brother and sister, uncle and niece, aunt and nephew, or first cousins.
  • If one spouse is the
    • Ex spouse or widow(er) of your sibling or
    • Ex spouse or widow(er) of your father’s or mother’s sibling or
    • Ex spouse or widow(er) of your grandfather’s or grandmother’s sibling.

In some cases, despite a relationship being prohibited by law, a person’s custom might still permit a marriage with another person. In this case, they can get married because their custom allows them to do so

Effects of Adoption

The following are the effects of adoption, regardless of which law you have adopted under:(( Section 63, Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2015; Sections 12, 13 and 15, Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956.)) 

  • Child of Adoptive Parent: The child becomes the child of the adoptive parent(s), and the adoptive parent(s) become the parents of the child as if the child had been born to them, for all purposes.
  • Familial Connections of the Child: The child’s connections with the family of birth are broken off and replaced by the ties created by the adoption in the adoptive family. However, under the Hindu law on adoption, the adopted child still cannot marry any person whom the child was prohibited from marrying while in the family of birth.
  • Property Rights of the Child: Any property owned by the adopted child before the adoption shall continue to remain the child’s property, along with the obligations attached to the property (including the obligation to maintain relatives in the biological family.)

Additionally, under the Hindu law on adoption,(( Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956.)) from the date on which the adoption order of a child becomes effective:(( Sections 12, 13 and 15, Hindu Adoption and Maintenance Act, 1956.)) 

  • Property Rights of the Child: The adopted child cannot claim ownership and deprive property which a person had before the child was adopted.  An adoption also cannot stop the adoptive father/mother from disposing of their property by transferring it during their lifetime or bestowing it by will.

Cancelling a Valid Adoption: A valid adoption cannot be cancelled by the adoptive parent or any other person. Once adopted, a child cannot reject the adoption and return to the family of birth.

Temporary maintenance for Senior Citizens

You can make an application to the court to order your children or relatives to pay you temporary maintenance (on a monthly basis). The court has to decide whether you can get temporary maintenance within 90 days of informing your children or relatives of your application. In special circumstances, they can delay this for some more time (i.e. 30 days).

This is not the final maintenance you can expect to get. The court may decide not to give you maintenance at all, or may decide to increase or decrease the amount of maintenance in the final order.

What is the procedure for a marriage by a Licensed Minister of Religion?

A marriage performed by a licensed Minister of Religion is divided into 4 stages: 

Stage 1: Issuing of Preliminary Notice 

In case two persons wish to be married by a licensed Minister of Religion, one of them must give a notice in person to the Minister, stating their intention to be married. The notice should mention the following:

  • The name and surname, and the profession or condition, of each of the persons intending marriage.
  • The current address of each of them.
  • The time during which each has been present in the said address. In case a person has been staying there for more than a month, they only need to state the same.
  • The place of marriage – either a church or a private dwelling.1

Given below is a sample notice:

Sample notice of marriage

 

 

The Minister will then paste the notice at a conspicuous or public place in the church.2 If the marriage is taking place at a private dwelling, the notice will be forwarded to the Marriage Registrar of that district, and the notice will be pasted in a conspicuous place of the Registrar’s office.(( Section 14, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In situations where the Minister refuses to perform a marriage, the notice will be either forwarded to another Minister, or returned to the persons who wish to get married.(( Section 15, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

Stage 2: Issuing of certificate of receipt of notice

After at least four days of receiving the notice,(( Section 17, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) one of the persons intending marriage must make a declaration to the Minister, stating that no legal problems exist in the marriage. In case one of the parties is a minor, they need to state that the necessary steps have been taken.(( Section 18, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) To know more about the special procedures of marriage of a minor, read our explainer on Marriages of Minors under Christian Law.

Stage 3: Performance of Marriage

After such a declaration has been made, the Minister will issue a certificate and the Minister must conduct the marriage within two months of the couple getting the certificate.(( Section 17, 24-26, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) Two witnesses must attend the marriage, apart from the Minister.(( Section 25, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In case two months have passed from receipt of the certificate, the entire process must restart with a fresh notice.(( Section 26, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

Stage 4: Registration of Marriage

After the marriage is performed, the details of the marriage shall be entered in a register by the Minister.(( Part IV, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872. )) The entry will be signed by the Minister, parties to the marriage, and two witnesses who had attended the ceremony.(( Section 33, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

A certified copy of an entry in the marriage register, signed by the person under whose custody the register is kept, will be legal evidence that the persons mentioned in the entry have been married according to the law.(( Section 80, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

  1. Section 12, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872. []
  2. Section 13, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872. []

What is a valid marriage?

The validity of a marriage can be checked through the nikahnama, which is considered integral to a religiously-valid Islamic marriage. The Qazi will maintain the nikahnama. If there is no nikahnama then the Qazi himself can be the witness.(( Mulla, D. F., Sir. (n.d.). Principles of Mahomedan Law (20th ed.) p.332.))

 

The nikah can also be done though phone or the internet.(( Mulla, D. F., Sir. (n.d.). Principles of Mahomedan Law (20th ed.) p.333.))  It will be valid in cases where the parties make a proposal and acceptance before their witnesses and an advocate who is present. The witnesses and the parties must be familiar with the person appointed as the advocate and should know their name, father’s name and residential address which is also mentioned at the time of the proposal and the acceptance.

 

Hindu Divorce if Spouse has left you

If your spouse has left you then you can file for a divorce. This is known as desertion.

Immediate Effect of Desertion

Desertion can happen if your spouse has left you with immediate effect with an intention to never come back to stay with you as your spouse, without you agreeing to this arrangement.

This will only be understood by the Courts on a case by case basis. It is important to note that if your spouse has temporarily or in the heat of the moment left you, without actually intending to abandon you, this will not amount to desertion.

For example, if you had a fight with your husband and he leaves the house in anger then it does not mean that he has deserted you.

Causing Desertion

However, it is important that you have not created such a circumstance that any reasonable person would find so difficult to bear with that would have had to desert you. If you have created such a circumstance then the courts may not consider your case for desertion.

Other Ways of Desertion

Apart from a single act of leaving you, desertion can happen over a period of time through a course of conduct or through repeated behavioural patterns.

If your spouse has slowly withdrawn from you and your social circles (for example: stopped all interaction with you and your family though he/she may live with you) and has stopped behaving as any spouse does in a marriage (for example: refusing to financially contribute to a household since and contribute in any other way to the household) it can be understood as desertion. In such a case the spouse doesn’t have to physically leave you. Depending on the circumstances of each case, the Court can consider the desertion to begin when such behaviour started.

The Court will look at all the facts and circumstances to understand each specific case to decide on granting a divorce.

Time Period for Desertion

In order to claim desertion as a reason for divorce:

  • Your spouse should have deserted or abandoned you for two years.
  • This two year period must be continuous.

For example, Karan left his wife, Vijji, in January 2016, but changed his mind and came back to be with his wife in July 2017. Vijji cannot go to Court to file for a divorce for this reason as the two year period was not continuous.

Protection for a Married Girl Child

The law offers certain protections to girls who have been married below the age of 18 years and have filed for cancelling their marriage. 

 

Payment of Maintenance

 

The district court can direct the husband, or in cases of minors, his parents or guardians, to pay some money as maintenance to the girl. 

 

The Court while deciding the amount of maintenance, will keep in mind the lifestyle of the girl and the income of the person paying. This payment has to be given till the girl remarries.

 

Arrangements for Residence

 

The court can even order suitable arrangements for residence to be made for the girl until she remarries. 

Invalid/Void Hindu Marriage

Void marriages are invalid from the beginning. These do not require annulment. Under the Hindu Marriage Act, Section 11 states certain situations where the marriage is void.  The following are the situations:

  • One of the parties has a spouse living at the time of marriage. For example, if Seema was already married to Rajesh during her marriage with Rahul.
  • If the parties are within the degrees of prohibited relationship. Customs allow spouses to marry within prohibited relationships in some societies.
  • Parties are Sapindas of each other, except in cases where certain customs allow it. A sapinda relationship can be either paternal or maternal.

Procedure for Adopting a Child from a Foreign Country by Indian Citizens (Non-Religious Law)

Follow the steps given below to adopt a child from a foreign country as an Indian citizen.(( Regulation 22, Adoption Regulations, 2017.)) 

Step 1: Necessary formalities for adoption of a child from a foreign country will be completed in that country, as per their law. 

Step 2: The relevant authority, depending on the laws of the country, shall issue approval of adoption, only on receiving the required documents (please ask the authority for more details on the same), and the following reports:

Step 3: A foreign child adopted by Indian citizens and having a foreign passport, will need an Indian visa to come to India. For obtaining this visa, you can apply for it to the Indian Mission in that country. 

Step 4: The immigration clearance for the child adopted shall be obtained from the Central Government in the Foreigners’ Division, Ministry of Home Affairs, through the Indian Diplomatic Mission to that country.

Claiming Maintenance from Tribunal for Senior Citizens

You can file an application in a Maintenance Tribunal under the Maintenance And Welfare Of Parents And Senior Citizens Act, 2007. You can file with the Tribunal in the area where:

  • You live currently, or
  • Have lived in the past, or
  • Where your children or relatives live.

Once you file an application with the Tribunal, you cannot file an application for maintenance under Section 125 of the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973 (which also gives you the same right).

Process after filing an application

After you have filed an application (the format will vary from state to state), the court will first notify your children and tell them that you have filed such an application. Then, the court can decide to refer the case to a Conciliation Officer, who will try to get the parties to agree to a friendly settlement. If the court does not refer the case, it will listen to both the parties.

The court will conduct an inquiry to figure out how much maintenance you need to be paid. An inquiry is not a full-fledged legal proceeding. Even though the law does not allow for representation by lawyers in these courts, there are high court judgments which have held that this right of lawyers cannot be restricted. This court is slightly informal in nature but it has the powers of a civil court and can order attendance of witnesses, take evidence on oath, etc.

If the court finds that your children or relatives are neglecting to take care of you, it can pass an order directing them to pay a monthly maintenance. The court can also order that interest (between 5% and 8%) be paid on the maintenance amount from the date of the application. If your children or parents are not paying the maintenance even after the court order, you can go to any similar court (maintenance tribunal) and ask for help in enforcing the order.