Theme: Family & Marriage

Is the procedure for Christian Marriage the same throughout India?

The Indian Christian Marriage law, which governs the law of Christian marriages, is applicable throughout India, except in the states of Travancore-Cochin and Manipur. 

  • In Manipur, Christian marriages take place through customary rules and personal laws. 

Travancore-Cochin is currently part of the Indian states of Kerala and Tamil Nadu. In the Cochin area of Kerala, Christian marriages take place as per the Cochin Christian Civil Marriage Act of 1920.(( Alex Xavier v. State of Kerala, Kerala High Court, W. P (C) No. 24424 of 2008.)) The Travancore portion of the former State spreads across the Southern parts of Kerala and Tamil Nadu. While Tamil Nadu has extended the application of the law to the entire State, including the portions of Travancore that are now a part of Tamil Nadu,(( Section 3, The Indian Christian Marriage (Extension to Transferred Territory) Act, 1995.)) Kerala has not done the same. So, in the Southern parts of Kerala, which were previously known as the state of Travancore, Christian marriages take place according to the internal laws of the Church, which will vary across denominations.(( Sujatha v. Jose Augustine,(1994) II DMC 442 : (1994) 2 KLT 4.))

Who is a guardian under Muslim law?

The right to contract the marriage of a minor or a person with unsound mind in marriage belongs to the following sets of people who are guardians:(( Mulla, D. F., Sir. (n.d.). Principles of Mahomedan Law (20th ed.) p.330.))

  • Father.
  • Paternal grandfather how high so ever.
  • Brother and other male relations on the father’s side.

If these paternal relations are not there then the right goes to:

  • Mother.
  • Maternal Uncle or aunt and other maternal relations.

Under the Shia school of Law, the only guardians for marriage for minors are the father and the paternal grandfather.(( Mulla, D. F., Sir. (n.d.). Principles of Mahomedan Law (20th ed.) p.346.))

Hindu Marriage and Mental Illness

If you are in a Hindu marriage, the mental illness of your spouse can be a ground for divorce.

You can file for divorce if:

  • Your spouse is suffering from any mental disorder that is not curable; or
  • Your spouse has a mental disorder that occurs intermittently or continuously and this illness affects your capacity to live with them.

It is important to note that a few strong instances indicating a short temper and somewhat erratic behaviour on the part of your spouse may not amount to or be indicative of a mental disorder.

Divorce can only happen if your spouse’s mental disorder would lead to the behaviour of such a kind that you cannot reasonably be expected to live with him or her.

You can even ask the Court to direct your spouse to undergo a medical examination to ascertain that he or she is suffering from an unsound mind to prove your case.

Reporting Child Marriages

Anyone can file a complaint of child marriage, including the child. It doesn’t matter whether the child marriage has taken place or not as it can be filed at any time before or after the marriage. A complaint can be made to any of the following authorities:

Call 1098

1098 is a toll-free number and it operates across India. It is operated by Childline India Foundation which works for child rights and child protection. Anyone, including children themselves, can call and give information on this number. You should educate children at schools or children who are working, about this helpline number so that illegal acts of child marriage can be prevented.

Police 

You can call the Police on 100 to report:

  • About a child marriage that is taking place or 
  • A child marriage that is about to take place. 

Alternatively, you can even go to a Police Station where you can file an FIR and report the same.

Child Marriage Prohibition Officer

You can approach the local Child Marriage Prohibition Officer and report a child marriage to him. He will immediately proceed to take action against the persons responsible. 

Child Welfare Committee

You can even approach your local Child Welfare Committee established under the law for juvenile justice to look into the matter. For example, in Delhi you can contact the committees based on the districts.

File a Complaint with the Court

You can even directly file a complaint with the Judicial Magistrate (First Class) or the Metropolitan Magistrate. The Court will order the Police or the Child Marriage Prohibition Officer, as required to take action. 

 

Voidable Marriage under Hindu Marriage Law

A Hindu marriage becomes voidable in the following situations:

  • One of the spouses is impotent.
  • If the conditions for marriage have not been fulfilled. Before 1978, a guardian had to give consent on behalf of the child getting married. The reason this practice was not followed after 1978 is due to the implementation of the Child Marriage Restraint (Amendment) Act, 1978.
  • At the time of marriage, the woman was pregnant by some person other than the spouse.
  • In cases where the consent was obtained by fraud or force.

If one of these conditions are fulfilled, you can go to Court to annul your marriage.

Procedure for Adoption by Overseas Citizen of India (OCI) or a Foreigner Living in India (Non-Religious Law)

Follow the steps given below to adopt a child if you are an Overseas Citizen of India (OCI) or a foreigner who is a habitual resident of India:(( Regulation 20, Adoption Regulations, 2017.)) 

 

Step 1: You should determine if you can adopt. You may adopt a child through this means only if you are an OCI or a foreign citizen who is a habitual resident of India (i.e. you live in India regularly). 

 

Step 2: You should register online on the website of Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) here. It will redirect you to Child Adoption Resource Information and Guidance System (CARINGS) where you will have to fill out your application.

 

Step 3: Along with your application, you should submit the required documents, which are:

  • Your photograph
  • PAN Card
  • Your proof of birth (in case of a married couple, the spouse’s proof of birth too)
  • Proof of residence (Aadhar card/ voter card/ passport/current electricity bill/telephone bill) 
  • Proof of income of last year (salary slip/income certificate issued by the government/income tax return) 
  • Certificate from a medical practitioner certifying that you do not suffer from any chronic, contagious or fatal disease and they are fit to adopt (in case of a married couple, the spouse’s Medical Certificate too) 
  • Marriage certificate/Divorce Decree/ Declaration from the Court or affidavit pertaining to divorce under personal law/Death certificate of spouse, if applicable.

 

Step 4: A home study will be conducted by the Specialised Adoption Agency (SAA), and depending on this, your application to adopt may be accepted  or rejected. The result will be uploaded on the CARINGS website.

 

Step 5:  If your application is accepted, on the basis of your seniority, three children will be referred to you by the SAA through the CARINGS. You may reserve one child for possible adoption within 48 hours, and a meeting will be fixed for matching you to the child and assessing suitability. This process will be completed within twenty days, and if you do not accept the child, your name will be moved to the bottom of the seniority list. 

 

Step 6: The SAA will follow-up on the adoption, and create a follow-up report every six months for two years. In case of any issues, counselling will be provided, and if there is an issue after adopting the child, the child  may be taken back and declared as legally free for adoption again for other prospective adoptive parents.

How can minors marry under Christian Law?

Under Christian law, a minor is defined as someone below the age of 21 years, and is not a widow or widower. In case one of the parties intending marriage is a minor, they would require the consent of their father to get married. If the father of the party is not alive, then the consent must be given by their guardian, and if there exists no guardian, by the mother.(( Section 19, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In case none of them are resident in India at the time, no such consent will be needed.(( Section 19, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))

However, the Prohibition of Child Marriage Act makes every marriage involving a child (below 18 years), voidable at the option of the child.(( Section 3(1), Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, 2006.)) According to the law, the child can, if they opt to, file a petition to annul the marriage, within two years of attaining the age of majority.(( Section 3(3), Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, 2006.)) To learn more on child marriages, read our explainer on ‘Child Marriage’. 

 

Procedure when marriage is performed by a licensed Minister of Religion

Given below is the general procedure followed by the Minister if a minor wants to get married under the law:

  • When a Minister receives a notice for marriage where one of the parties is a minor, they must forward the notice to the Marriage Registrar of the district.(( Section 15, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • The notice will then be forwarded to the other Marriage Registrars of that district, and will be pasted on a conspicuous place in their offices.(( Section 16, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • In case a person who has the authority to give consent refuses to do so, they can inform their objection towards the marriage to the concerned Minister, in writing.(( Section 20, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In such a case, no certificate of marriage will be issued by the Minister, unless a satisfactory enquiry has been made by the Minister into the facts.(( Section 21, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) Such an objection must be made before the issuance of the certificate of receipt of notice.(( Section 20, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • In case no objection is raised, the Minister can still wait for 14 days from the date of receiving the notice, before granting a certificate.(( Section 22, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • Once a certificate is issued, the remaining procedures for performance of the marriage and registration remain the same.

Procedure when marriage is performed by or in the presence of a Marriage Registrar

Given below is the general procedure followed by a Marriage Registrar if a minor wants to get married under the law

  • When a Registrar receives a notice for marriage where one of the parties is a minor, they must forward the notice to the other Marriage Registrars of that district, and the copies of the notice will be pasted on a conspicuous place in their offices.(( Section 39, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • In case a person who has the authority to give consent refuses to do so, they can inform their objection towards the marriage to the concerned Registrar, in writing.(( Sections 19 & 44, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) In such a case, no certificate of marriage will be issued by the Registrar, unless a satisfactory enquiry has been made by the Registrar.(( Section 45, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) Such an objection must be made before the issuance of the certificate of receipt of notice.(( Section 44, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • In case the person withholding the consent is of unsound mind, or if that person (not being the father) withholds consent unjustly, the parties can approach the Court. Parties who reside in the towns of Mumbai, Chennai, and Kolkata can directly approach their respective High Courts, while others can approach the District Court for the same.(( Section 45, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • Moreover, if the Registrar themself has doubts regarding the authority of the person withholding consent, the Registrar can also approach the Court.(( Section 48, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • In case no objection is raised, the Registrar can still wait for 14 days from the date of receiving the notice, before granting a certificate.(( Section 41, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.))
  • Once the certificate is issued, the procedure for performance of the marriage and registration remains the same.

Conversion of religion from Hinduism

Conversion 

You can file for divorce if your spouse has undergone conversion to another religion and has ceased to be a Hindu.

File a Case

It is very important to note that since your spouse has converted to another religion it does not automatically end your marriage to them. You must still file for divorce.

Even if your spouse has converted to another religion the divorce proceedings will happen under the Hindu law and not the religion your spouse converted to. This is because your marriage to your spouse happened under Hindu law.

Marrying before Filing for a Divorce

Till the divorce has been finalized by the Court your marriage will continue to exist with your spouse. Your spouse cannot marry before this and such marriage will not be a valid marriage in law.

Punishment

If your spouse marries again without getting a divorce from you then you can charge them with the offence of bigamy which is punishable with up to 7 years jail time and a fine.

Muslim Divorce if Husband Is Impotent

Under Muslim law, you can file for divorce if you find out that your husband is impotent or even if you knew throughout your marriage that your husband was impotent. In this situation your husband can do either of the following:

  • Accept in front of the Court that he is indeed impotent.
  • Deny the impotency allegation in Court and prove that he is free from any physical defect of impotency.
  • File an application to the Court to give him one year to medically fix the problem. If after a year, he is not impotent, then the Court cannot grant a divorce in your favor.

Power of the Court to Stop Child Marriage

When the Court receives credible information that a child marriage has been arranged or is about to take place, it can issue an order prohibiting the persons from conducting and organizing such marriages. 

 

The accused person can apply to the Court to either revoke this order or even alter it. The Court can even do this on its own motion. 

 

Any child marriage that takes place after the order has been issued will not be a valid marriage. 

 

Circumstances of Court Intervention

The Court can intervene: 

  • On its own, or
  • On the basis of a complaint filed by a Child Marriage Prohibition Officer or any Non Governmental Organization (NGO), or
  • In some cases, such as on days of Akshaya Tritiya which is an auspicious time for marriages, the Court can also act as the Child Marriage Prohibition Officer and have all the powers of this Prohibition Officer to prevent child marriages from taking place, or 
  • Any person who has personal knowledge about a child marriage which may take place. 

Notice Issued by Court

Before passing this order the Court must issue a notice to the person accused under this law to give an opportunity to defend themselves.

 

However, in urgent cases, the Court has the power to issue an interim order (before the final order)  stopping the marriage, without giving notice to the person(s) accused.

 

Punishment 

If a temporary order has been issued against you and you do not follow it, you will be punished with jail time of up to two years and/or fine up to one lakh rupees. 

 

Sapindas and Hindu Marriage

Sapinda relationships are prohibited under Hindu marriage law.  A sapinda is someone who is:

  • within or has a common ancestor relative within three generations above you on your mother’s side of the family
  • within or has a common ancestor relative within five generations above you on your father’s side of the family.

A sapinda can be someone from your father’s side or mother’s side hence, you are not eligible for a hindu marriage if you marry someone who is a Sapinda.

However, in some cases, despite a sapinda relationship being prohibited by law, a person’s custom might still permit a marriage with another person. In this case, they can get married because their custom allows them to do so.

Jail time up to one month or a fine up to Rs. 1000 or both is the punishment but there are exceptions. 

Procedure for Adoption by Resident Indians (Non-Religious Law)

As a resident Indian, you may opt for in-country adoption i.e., adoption within India. Your application for adoption will go through various stages, as mentioned below:(( Regulations 9, 10, 11, 12 and 13, Adoption Regulations, 2017.))

 

Step 1: You may apply for adopting a child by registering on the website of Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), here. It will redirect you to Child Adoption Resource Information and Guidance System (CARINGS) where you can fill your application details such as  your personal details, employment details, etc. 

 

Step 2: After registration, you will be required to submit relevant documents as part of your application. Please see here to understand which documents you will have to submit. After you fill out the application, you will be given an acknowledgement slip.

 

Step 3: Once you have filled the application with the relevant details and documents, you can track the status of your application with the registration number provided to you on the acknowledgement slip.

 

Step 4: A home study will be conducted by CARA or Specialized Adoption Agency (SAA), to determine whether you are eligible to adopt a child.

 

Step 5: Your application may be accepted or rejected. In case your application is rejected, the reasons will be posted on CARINGS, and you may appeal against that decision to the Children’s Court. Please see here for the procedure for appeal. 

 

Step 6: If your application is accepted, on the basis of your seniority, three children will be referred to you by the SAA through the CARINGS. You can choose one child for possible adoption within 48 hours, and a meeting will be fixed to assess suitability. This process will be completed within twenty days, and if you do not accept the child you have chosen, your name will be moved to the bottom of the seniority list. 

 

Step 7: Within ten days of your selection of a child, you will have to take the child in pre-adoption foster care, which makes you the child’s foster parents. This happens while the adoption approval order is pending from the Court. You should sign this undertaking before taking the child in. 

 

Step 8: The SAA (or other relevant authority) will file an application with the relevant Court to obtain an adoption order. If the SAA is not available in your town, the relevant authority will do this. The Court proceedings will be held in-camera, and your application will be disposed of within two months from when you filed the adoption application. Thereafter, the SAA will obtain the birth certificate of the child within three working days with your name. 

 

Step 9: The SAA which conducted the home study will prepare the post-adoption follow-up report every six months for two years after the adoption. In case of any issues, counselling will be provided, and if there is an issue after adopting the child, the child  may be taken back and declared as legally free for adoption again for other prospective adoptive parents.

 

For more information on the procedure, please see here. 

When and where can a Christian Marriage be performed?

Time of Marriage

A Christian marriage can only be performed between 6 AM and 7 PM.(( Section 10, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) However, priests from the Church of England, Church of Rome, and the Church of Scotland can perform a marriage beyond these hours, as long as it is according to the rules and customs of their Church. Moreover, priests from the Church of England and Church of Rome would require a license from the bishops of their respective churches, in order to perform a marriage beyond these hours.

Place of Marriage

A Christian marriage can be performed either in a church,(( Section 13, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) or in a private dwelling,(( Section 14, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) or in the presence of a marriage registrar.(( Section 38, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) However, if the marriage is being performed by a priest from the Church of England, it shall only be performed in a church.(( Section 11, Indian Christian Marriage Act, 1872.)) However, this mandate is relaxed in case there are no churches within a five-mile radius, or if the priest has obtained a special license for the purpose from the Bishop of the Church.

Proof of Divorce under Hindu Marriage Law

The proof that your divorce has happened is the Court’s final order known as ‘decree of divorce’. This is in the form of an order, which is a document that enforces your divorce.

A decree of divorce is final when either of the two happens:

  • The spouse who is unhappy with the decision of the Court has already appealed the decree of divorce within 90 days, and the Court has dismissed that appeal.
  • There is no right to appeal.

Please consult a lawyer for more information on this.

Cruel Behavior and Muslim Marriage Law

There are provisions on cruel behavior under the Muslim marriage law. Cruelty is any conduct or behavior which causes harassment in the mind of the spouse. Under the Muslim law, cruelty is specifically understood as when your husband:

  • Habitually assaults you or physically abuses you.
  • Has sexual intercourse with other women.
  • Forces you to lead an immoral life.
  • Disposes of your property and prevents you from exercising your legal rights over it.
  • Obstructs you from practicing your religion.
  • In a scenario where he has more than one wife and does not treat you equally as compared to the other wives.

Child Marriage Prohibition Officers

Child Marriage Prohibition Officers (CPMO) are appointed by the State governments to curb issues of child marriages in each State. These officers are responsible for reporting and preventing child marriages. 

 

The duties of the CPMO are decided and assigned by the State Government. They broadly include:

 

  • Prevention of Child Marriage by preventing performance of child marriage by taking such action as he deems fit.
  • Collection of Evidence for prosecuting persons charged under this law. 
  • Advising and counselling people of a locality against indulging in any child marriages in any way.
  • Spreading Awareness of the problems that arise out of child marriages, such as maternal mortality, malnutrition, domestic violence, etc.
  • Sensitizing the community on the issue of child marriage.
  • Reporting periodical returns and statistics to the State Government on the frequency and occurrence of child marriage. 

 

In order to effectively carry out their duties, the State Government can even confer upon the CPMO some powers of a police officer with certain conditions and limitations. This has to be done by way of a notification in the Official Gazette. 

 

To read more about the functioning of the CPMO, please refer to this Government Handbook that explains their duties in detail. (page 19-22)

What is a ‘Special Marriage’ or Inter-Religious Marriage?

Civil marriages, also commonly called ‘Special Marriages’ or ‘Inter-religious marriages’ do not depend on the religion of the couple. Instead, the marriage happens under the Special Marriage Act where a couple practicing a different faith or religion have the right to get married in India.(( The Special Marriage Act, 1954.))

To get married under this law, you need to figure out if you and your spouse are legally eligible to get married. For example, you need to be over a certain age to be able to get married and you cannot have another living spouse from whom you have not been divorced.

 

Procedure for Adoption by Relative (Non-Religious Law)

As a relative of a child, following the non-religious law to adopt, you can adopt both within India and also do inter-country adoptions.

Adoption within India (In-Country Adoption)

Follow the steps given below for adopting a child through in-country relative adoption i.e. adoption within India.(( Regulation 51, Adoption Regulations, 2017.)) 

Step 1: You should determine if you can adopt the child. You must be related to the child in any of the following ways:(( Section 2(52), Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act, 2015.)) 

  • You must be his/her paternal uncle or aunt,
  • You must be his/her maternal uncle or aunt, 
  • You must be his/her paternal grandparent, 
  • You must be his/her maternal grandparent.

You must also be(( Ministry of Women and Child Development, Central Adoption Resource Authority, Relative Adoption (In-country), http://164.100.158.243/carings/family/famhome.aspx.)) either a Resident Indian or Non-Resident Indian (NRI) or an Overseas Citizen of India (OCI) residing in India for at least one year.

Step 2: You must register on the website of Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), here. It will redirect you to Child Adoption Resource Information and Guidance System (CARINGS). You should submit the required documents,(( Schedule VI, Adoption Regulations, 2017.)) which are:

  • Proof of residence 
  • Consent of the child, if the child is aged more than 5 years
  • Consent of the biological parents in this format , or permission from the Child Welfare Committee (CWC) to the legal guardian of the child to surrender the child and give him/her up for adoption in this format 
  • Adoption order from court, as described in step 3. 
  • Affidavit in support of you and your spouse’s relationship, and your financial and social status in this format

Step 3: Thereafter, you must file an adoption application with the relevant Court, in this format. Once obtained, you must upload it on Child Adoption Resource Information and Guidance System (CARINGS).

For more information on the procedure, please see here.

Adoption across Countries (Inter-Country Adoption)

Follow the steps given below for adopting a child through inter-country relative adoption.(( Regulation 53, Adoption Regulations, 2017.)) 

Step 1: You should determine if you can adopt a child. You may adopt a relative’s child if you are a Non-Resident Indian or an Overseas Citizen of India. 

Step 2: You should approach the relevant authority i.e. the Authorized Foreign Adoption Agency or the Central Authority in your country of residence. In case there is no Authorized Foreign Adoption Agency or Central Authority in your country of residence, then you should approach the relevant Government department or Indian diplomatic mission (in cases of Indian citizens) in that country. They will guide you on the home study that will be conducted and once that is done, the registration process.

Step 3: You should submit the required documents.  Please ask the authority you have approached for more details on this. 

Step 4: Once your documents have been submitted, the authority will forward your application to the District Child Protection Unit (DCPU) for a family background report ( this might be chargeable). See here for more details on the report. This report will be forwarded to the receiving country and the relevant authority. 

Step  5: You should file an application for adoption to Court in the district where the child resides in this format, with a consent form from the biological parents and all the other documents, which are:

  • Consent of the child, if the child is more than 5 years old
  • Permission of the receiving country
  • Your relationship with the child (family tree)
  • Recent family photographs of you, the child and the biological parents
  • Consent of the biological parents in this format or permission from the Child Welfare Committee (CWC) to the legal guardian of the child to surrender the child and give him/her up for adoption in this format 
  • Family background report 

Thereafter, you should furnish a certified copy of the adoption order to the DCPU. 

Step 6: The relevant authority will provide a No Objection Certificate (NOC) in favor of the adoption within ten days of receiving the adoption order from the DCPU. 

For more information, please see here. 

Reconciliation during divorce proceedings under Hindu Marriage Law

In all family law cases, Courts encourage an attempt for reconciliation between the spouses.

Consequence of Reconciliation

After reconciliation happens, either:

  • You and your spouse can get back together and continue your marital relationship, or
  • You and your spouse can decide to end the marriage peacefully and divorce each other.

There are three kinds of reconciliation methods in India:

Mediation

  • Mediation is a process of resolving conflicts by identifying their causes and then making a strategy to address them. This is done by a mediator who is a person either appointed by the Court during the divorce proceedings or is assigned from a Mediation Centre which is located near the Court.

Conciliation

  • In Conciliation, a person known as the conciliator is appointed.  His role is to persuade the parties to arrive at a solution suggested by him during the course of the discussions.

Counsellor in Family Courts

  • A counsellor is a person whose job is to provide advice, help, or encouragement to solve problems during divorce and other family matters. A counsellor is a person appointed by a Family Court to find out:
  • The reason why or if you and your spouse are incompatible for each other.
  • Whether the incompatibility can be fixed by any psychological or psychiatric assistance from doctors.
  • Whether you and your spouse are under the influence of anybody else to divorce each other.
  • Whether you and your spouse are taking free and independent decisions regarding the divorce.

 

Iddat After Divorce in Muslim Marriages

The Iddat period after divorce in a Muslim marriage is a period of time where the wife is not allowed to marry anyone else or have sexual intercourse with anyone. Only women have to follow the Iddat period under the Muslim Law.

If you have been divorced by your husband then the Iddat period is:

  • Three months from the date your husband says the word ‘talaq’.
  • If you are pregnant during this iddat period, then until the date of delivery.

Your husband can always change his mind during the iddat period and take back his talaq, after which, you will be a married couple again.

Conditions To Be Fulfilled For A Valid Inter-Religious Marriage

The following are the conditions you have to keep in mind at the time of marriage:(( Section 4, The Special Marriage Act, 1954.))

  • Neither party has a living spouse.
  • Neither party:
    • is incapable of giving valid consent to the marriage in consequence of unsoundness of mind.
    • though capable of giving valid consent, has been suffering from mental disorder of such a kind that they are unfit for marriage and unfit to have children.
    • has been subject to recurrent attacks of insanity or epilepsy.
  • The male is at least twenty-one years of age and the female is at least eighteen years of age.
  • The parties are not within the degrees of prohibited relationship.

Marriages governed by customs

In cases where customs are involved for a person belonging to a tribe, community, group, or family, the State Government can make rules governing them and the solemnization of marriage. This is not needed in cases where:

  • Such customs have been continuously observed for a long time among the members.
  • Customs or rules are not against public policy.
  • The customs or rules are applicable only to a family and the family is still continuing the practice.

In cases where the marriage is solemnized in the State of Jammu and Kashmir both parties should be citizens of India living in the territories to which the Act extends.

 

Procedure for Adoption by Step-Parent (Non-Religious Law)

As a step-parent of the child you want to adopt, you can follow the procedure given below.(( Regulation 52, Adoption Regulations, 2017.))

Step 1: You and your spouse (the biological parent of the child) must register on the website of Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), here. It will redirect you to Child Adoption Resource Information and Guidance System (CARINGS), where you can fill your application details such as  your personal details, employment details, etc.

Step 2: You must then upload the relevant documents, which are:1

  • Proof of residence of you and your spouse
  • Proof of the parties mentioned above being legally wedded. 
  • Death Certificate of the biological parent in case he/she is not alive. 
  • Attested photographs of the child to be adopted, the biological parent(s), spouse adopting the child and the witnesses. 
  • Form from Child Welfare Committee (CWC) granting you permission, as described in step 3. 
  • Adoption order from court, as described in step 4.

Step 3: You must be granted permission from the CWC to adopt the child. You must fill up this form, which also provides  your and your spouse’s consent.  In case children are being relinquished/surrendered by both spouses from their respective earlier marriages for adoption, separate consent forms shall be filled up.

Step 4: You along with your spouse must file an application in the Family/District/City Civil Court in this format. Thereafter, you should obtain a certified copy of the adoption order from the court and submit a copy of it online through CARINGS.

For more information, please see here. 

  1. Schedules XX and VI, Adoption Regulations, 2017. [↩]

Re-marriage after Divorce under Hindu Marriage Law

If you want to remarry, you have to wait for 90 days from the date of the Court’s final order, so that your spouse has time to ‘appeal’ against the Court’s decision.

Under the law, you can remarry right after getting the decree of divorce when:

  • The spouse who is unhappy with the decision of the Court has already appealed the decree of divorce, and the Court has dismissed that appeal.
  • There is no right of appeal against the decree of divorce.
  • Where you and your spouse have settled all issues regarding the divorce such as children, property etc. and both of you have decided not to file any more cases.

Please consult a lawyer for this.

Mehr/Dower in a Muslim Marriage

During a Muslim marriage ceremony, a sum of money or property will be decided to be paid to you by your husband, known as mehr or dower. Traditionally mehr is understood as an amount reserved for the wife for when she needs it the most, that is either after divorce or death of the husband.

Even if no specific amount is fixed at the time of the marriage, legally you have a right to mehr. It can either be paid in full at the time of marriage or in parts, i.e. half at the time of marriage and the rest upon divorce or death of your husband.

Once your divorce is final, and your iddat period has been completed, if you haven’t received your mehr amount from your husband then your husband has to give it to you.